Saturday, November 14, 2009

Kinda creeping me out?

ok so this kid in my school who is in grade 8 im in grade nine btw well anyway yea he has a huge crush on me and he told me on valentines day when he gave me chocolates and a cheesy poem but yeah i dont like him and he got kinda obsessed with me like last week he gave me the second present which was a teddy bear that he won at the school carnival so yeah i took it both gifts i know i shouldent have but at the beggining i liked the attention now i dont anymore i wanna be nice to him he got weird he cut my name onto his arm and i dont want him to go all emo but yeah he kinda knows that i wanna be friends but yeah maybe not so i dont know how to make him go away but by doing it nicely and i dont want to go out with him i know i should have told him this from the beggining but i didnt and he also started listening to country because he says that i like country and he watched the movie juno because it was my favorite movie and now he always talks to me on msn about how much he loves me

Kinda creeping me out?
holy cow.. 2 things:


1. use periods and commas. that's one LONG sentence


2. he actually cut your name on his arm?! a 13 year old?





So here's what i think, and it's simple: just tell him nicely that you aren't interested, but thanks for the gifts. He is only13, he will move on so don't you worry.
Reply:just tell him how you feel he will be hurt but he will get it in the long run see young teens think i have to do this and this and this but the thing is you have plenty of time for it all tell him that he will find som1 better than you mabe not now but in the future cuz he has all the time in the world he doesnt have to do it all at such an age trust me ive been there b4
Reply:Just tell him straight up. Anyway you put it you are going to hurt his feelings, if you wait it out and hope he loses interest, he is going to drive you crazy. He's 14, he'll get over it. You say you kinda wanna be friends? Tell him you want to be friends, but you have to say no to going out with him because you don't like him that way. Tell him that your letting him know this now so he doesn't get the wrong impression.
Reply:block him on msn, ignore him for a while, u guys are just kids. he'll get another crush soon enough and leave u alone if u dont lead him on.


if he gets to freaky tell your teacher or any teacher u feel comfortable with, they will help u out(they'll call his mom or talk to him) and most of them will give u good advice.


if that doesnt work tell your mom or an adult who u feel comfortable with.


by the way before doing all of this first and foremost talk to him, who knows maybe he'll understand and it can all be solved with just talking. STOP GIVING HIM SO MUCH ATTENTION,that can be misleading.

ada

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